This Is Your Journey

Good day friends! Time to get over that hump, its Wednesday! These days, I’ve been thinking a lot about the reactions I get from people when we discuss my running. Of course there is always the comments like “dude you are crazy” or “running is just boring for me”. Those are to be expected. Then there are those that claim not to have the time or will blame something else for them to avoid running all together. Then there is the bunch that confuse me with the following comment: “I’m not fast enough, so why bother”.

When I hear that comment, or something similar, it’s like a punch in the gut. My first reaction is to say, “you know you are right, I’m going to stop running because I’m not fast enough either”.

There are tons of people faster than me. So I wonder, why compare yourself to anyone at all? This is your own journey. It’s my journey also. My journey will be completely different from yours. There may be some similarities but at the end it’s customized to you and me.

My journey three years ago started when I was holding onto my daughter’s stroller to use it as a walker in Disney World because excess weight had given me bad plantar fasciitis and the pain caused me to hold onto the stroller, just to walk! My journey started when I got home from Disney. Lose the weight with exercise. I took small steps. Walking, jogging, stopping even during my running as my foot got thru the discomfort. Time on my watch didn’t matter. What mattered was dropping the weight.

When the weight started to go down, the satisfaction of a walk or a jog felt so euphoric. It was like a drug. An exercise high if you will. I never wanted to give this drug up. Walks became jogs and jogs became runs. Never since HS did I ever think I would run as much as I do now, however that journey has led me here.

Going back to the concept of being fast enough, did it matter how fast I was going to walk around my block three years ago when I started my journey 40 pounds heavier? Not at all. My eyes were set on losing that weight. My daughter was 5 at the time. Dad wasn’t about to be slowed down at this age because of some excess weight and ankle issues. When you put all of this into perspective, ask yourself instead, ‘are you fast enough to make the decision to do something better for yourself before too much time passes or before its too late?’ That’s where the question lies. That’s where you question ‘your speed’. Never mind how far others are running or how fast they are running it. They aren’t on your journey. Only you are!

Further what awaits you once you decide to take on ‘your journey’ is a transformation into a better version of yourself than ever before. For many, the physical aspects of your journey will bring you a healthier, stronger and more fit self. However that’s not the only transformation you will see. I talked about that ‘fitness high’. Oh its real…it is very real! Runners can tell you about their ‘runner’s high’ also. For me it is a feeling like no other and it isn’t one that I feel only when I run fast or I set a personal best at a distance. I feel it every time I run. You may not feel it initially but it always comes around! How I wish more people would experience this – but they don’t because mentally they have put up a road block that won’t allow them this euphoria.

Now that I’ve explained why time doesn’t make a difference, I hope I have been able to push some of you out there to stop doubting and questioning yourselves! Sometimes the mind is our worst enemy. Ironically enough, just yesterday I spent the whole day thinking of a quote that a great American Olympic distance runner, Kara Goucher, said back in 2013. I will leave you with a graphic of that quote below and implore you to start your own journey now!!

Time For A Plan

Don’t Be Afraid To Assess & Plan!

 

 

I’ve been doing some serious thinking about my own workouts. I want to run to maintain my stamina for my upcoming races but I also recognized that I needed to start lifting weights again to regain muscle that I have lost due to a lot of running. I have an interval training class on Wednesday’s that I love to take because it is probably my best all around workout of the week. Its right in the middle of the week and I don’t want to give that up. It’s getting difficult to juggle everything so I think it’s time to plan my workouts.

This same scenario could very well be happening to any of you out there but with different things to juggle. I didn’t even factor in home life in my initial paragraph above! Don’t be afraid to admit that you may not be planning your workouts right. For a while, all I did was run almost everyday. In the summer I was running 6 days a week. I lost ALL of my muscle. I don’t want to do that again. So I have to be mindful of that. I started to implement lifting again and my running hasn’t suffered too much. I haven’t gotten faster but at the same time, I’ve gained my muscle back. I don’t want to lose my stamina however because I have a half marathon coming in March and while I have lots of time for it, the NYC Marathon looms next November.

In order to plan your workouts though, you need to have a goal in mind. If you have been reading my posts you know I love to talk about goals. Setting them and achieving them is the only way to go. I see so many people go to the gym walking on the treadmill for an hour reading a books Ok- kudos to you for coming here to the gym instead of sitting on the couch, but will you achieve your goal doing that? I’m not sure?

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Equipment From My Interval Training Class – Part Of My Plan!

 

Sometimes your goals might require more time than you originally thought. Don’t be afraid to incorporate family into your goals to help you with your time management. Sometimes your only going to be as successful as your support team. If you have a family, be upfront with your spouse or your kids about your goals. Explain to them that you need to get to the gym, or go for a run “x” number a times a week. I am fairly certain that they will be more than willing to work with you since at the end, this will only benefit your health!

That brings me back to my personal plan. Going into this weekend, I need to get at least one long run in. I have a 5 mile race on thanksgiving and I haven’t really put any runs in over 4 miles in a couple of weeks. This weekend, I have to put in at least a 4 mile run. I can’t forget about weights as I mentioned, so this is how my week is going to go – I hope!

Sunday – 5 Mile run (tempo pace)
Monday- Weight training (gym)
Tuesday(AM) – 3-4 mile easy jog
Wednesday- Interval Training Class
Thursday – 5 Mile Race
Friday – OFF
Saturday Weight Training (gym)

A plan can happen to you. Just give it some thought. Find a goal and work towards it. Know that you CAN DO IT!

 

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Stop Wishing – Conquer A Goal!